Twinkle, twinkle little star

Want to strengthen your mind,body and soul?

2011-05-22T10:26:00.000-07:00

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Who doesn't need it?

2011-02-08T10:49:00.000-08:00

"Too much love will kill you, just the same as none at all"

In my opinion the one who came up with this quote is definitely right. I believe that the universe was created thanks to love. It's important to realise that no matter how lonely someone feels there's always someone out there that loves him/her. In some cases distance doesn't disturb love between two people. It might not be as strong as in the beginning but it still exists and reveals itself from time to time. There are many types of love. I find love between relatives,friends and lovers very interesting.
When I was a kid I've been in difficult situations when the world was crashing down on me. A remedy was acknowledging that many out there love me and I'm a result of their love and my own efforts. Dealing with the pain had been easier/
Love can be a medicine or a bullet, it can never be both things at the same time (just like happiness and truth).
When being in a relationship it's best to keep a side that constantly loves yourself because it can prevent moments of:
1.pitying yourself (which makes the other one involved feel the same about you) 2.having a really messed up heart after breaking up. The loving side that I'm talking about should be in a proper amount so you won't become arrogant. It's meant to strengthen your confidence and optimism.
Love can end up killing people when they depend too much on the other person. Sometimes I think the reasons why married people start criticizing and being angry over small things is because they expect too much from the other one. I mean come on, why does someone else have to do it if you can? It seems angry lovers don't know that expectations either lead to dissapointment or anger. Not knowing this makes their lives miserable.
In conclusion love motivates,shapes and helps us through hard times and we should all spend time figuring out it's secrets.

Me is strange :D

2010-05-07T20:29:00.000-07:00

Building up our character when we are young seems to me as if it doesn't matter anymore to most children. When I go to highschool I see many things that are supposed to make students unique (ex: a great looking necklace each day etc.) I agree that people need to look good but their focus isn't making someone to like them for who they are. When I'm having a conversation with a friend and I ask him something like: "If you could be any animal/object/plant on Earth which one would you be?" the first thing he says is: "I don't know" I would go on if only one person had answered like this but sadly he wasn't the only one. Such questions really please me when I hear them because they truly lend me a hand when it comes to finding who I am.